I hope everyone is having a lovely weekend so far. Mine is awesome. Spent with my man, doing very simple things together like grocery shopping and cooking but it’s these simple moments that make me the happiest.
I’m going to today talk briefly about trusting in your journey. Trusting in the things that happen to you in your life at any given moment and knowing that they are occurring and happening to you because they are meant to be. I can put my hand on my heart right now and say that every single thing that has ever happened to me in my life, I believe was supposed to happen. Whether it be a job that I haven’t landed which at the time I was so upset about or a relationship that hasn’t worked out. I truly believe that these things have happened to me to send me to better things. Better opportunities, better relationships, a better life. If you look back at any of your past relationships, can you honestly say that you wish you were still with that person or that you wished it had worked out? Probably not. Can you look back at that job that you left and say that you wish you had stuck it out even though it was making you unhappy? Most likely not. Because things happen in exactly the way they are supposed to happen, so that you are kept on the right path. Your own unique pre-planned path. I do believe that we all have our own path and I feel that life and the universe seems to know when we are on the right path and when we are on the wrong one. When we are on the wrong path, doing the wrong things, in the wrong job or with the wrong person, things just don’t seem to go that smoothly. Everything is an uphill struggle. Nothing flows in the way that it should do. It is life’s way of telling us that we are on the wrong path. And that until we do something about it and make some changes to our lives, things will remain the same.
I am currently facing a ‘situation’ at work which back in the day, would have worried me beyond words. “Oh god, what happens if I get fired”……”Oh no, everything is going wrong, this is terrible” bla bla bla. I’d be in a right state. But I try not to react like this to situations or bumps in the road that I am faced with anymore. Mainly because I know that these hurdles have been placed in front of me for a reason. And that if something happens, which means that my path changes somewhat, then so be it. It is totally out of my control. What will be will be. And what is meant to be, will always find a way. I am not saying that I will never be phased or upset by anything ever again, because that’s unrealistic but I am saying that I know that when it comes to certain things in life, we are far better off in just allowing what is going to unfold to just unfold, rather than getting all worked up and stressed about it. And if shit “falls apart” or something doesn’t work out, we just have to pick ourselves up again, battle on and most importantly know and understand that this is actually part of our journey. This is meant to be happening. How f##king liberating is that. What a relief. I love that about life. It just knows whats best for us.
The universe has your back guys, trust in your journey no matter what.